Can I Get Rid of This?
There is one question that my boyfriend asks that drives me crazy and will get an angry response out of me, “Can I get rid of this?” He is a minimalist and has an urge to get rid of things. He cannot understand why I would have more than one Sharpie, more than one pen, more than one blank notebook, more than one highlighter. I must remind you that I work from home, and all of these things are stored away in my office area. If any of you have ever worked in an office environment you may have knowledge of the “supply closet” which contains extra pens, notebooks, highlighters, etc., in case something runs out and you don’t have the time (or resources) to drop everything, run out and buy a new one in order to continue what you were working on. Over the years I have accumulated a good stash of things that have been very useful (and money saving) in my endeavor to work for myself.
What brings this post on today was the discovery by my BF of 10 floppy disks, stored in my drawer. “Can I throw out these floppy disks that you have?” My answer, of course, was NO. He then told me that computers no longer have disk drives (duh) and that I should put the info on CD/DVD and get rid of the disks,. He also offered to do it for me. Now I am very aware that floppy disks are no longer used, and that new computers do not have drives for them. I am also aware that this is an obsolete technology and that I should transfer the information to a memory stick or CD. These disks contain old files, tax info from previous years, old business files, my book of poetry that only one other person has ever read, and really not things that anyone else needs to view or have access to. I admit that they are things that I don’t need right now, but might someday (should I ever get audited, want to publish my book, review old documents, etc). I also still own a desktop, that my assistant uses, with a disk drive, so there has not been a reason for me to convert the files.
The comparison to me keeping these disks in a drawer in my office area was that he should store his 4 summer tires (currently stored in a shed) in our basement (which is not really a basement, but the lower half of our home where our bedrooms and bathroom are). This statement pissed me off and my reaction was as such. Perhaps I shouldn’t have gotten mad, but I did and then proceed to tell him he was being an idiot.
There are two other things that I have kept that he does not understand why I don’t want to part with them: A small (10 L) rubbermaid container with VHS tapes (my Disney collection, movies & TV shows that I have been in and created, and a few of my favourite films) which I admit are an obsolete technology, but I still have a VHS player and do not have the funds to transfer to or replace them with DVD; and my collection of books, which are housed in two bookshelves. I am an avid reader and I cherish my books. I love the feel of turning the pages and I value each and every book I have. It has always been a dream of mine to have a library or a least a wall of books in my office. I know that there are new technologies where I can read online or download all the books that I want, but I’m not interested. I take a book with me when I take public transit, I read at night before bed and I’ve even been know to curl up on the couch and read a book in an afternoon.
Should I get rid of these things and upgrade to new technology? What’s your opinion? I’d love to hear it.
So there is the end of my rant for Saturday.












10 Comments
Yes… upgrade. Get rid of all those old magazines, CD cases, and your broken camera too.
PS: I love you.
I wonder if it’s that you’re sentimental about the objects, times that you’ve handled them. the meaning you imbued in them once upon a time, etc. Not that I’m knocking that, I’m just theorizing why the disks, for example, mean as much as they do as opposed to moving the data and throwing the disks away.
I went on a big binge a couple of years ago of throwing away all of my VHS tapes, giving away most of my comic books, leaving most of my toys on the doorstep of the house down the street with the little kids, etc. Just to be rid of clutter. I make so much clutter as an artist with my drawings and the things that i make that it’s very easy to be buried underneath it!
That said, I also have all of my other clutter that means a lot to me: my Spider-Man collection, my books, my toys, my comics. Right now I’m starting to get settled again, bringing all of this stuff out of storage a bit at a time to see what really means something to me and what’s just junk. I’m sure that as I find new digs and get settled again, I’ll be keeping a lot more ’stuff’ around!
I understand the minimalist concepts, I R ONE – BUT – tell him to go for a run, work out his frustrations, then come back and curl up on the couch with a book, give the video games a rest……cheers
Oh daddy, you’re the best. The video games only get played when brother is home. Then I don’t see the two of them for days
hahaha… I should send him up there to help Mom get rid of things… he might have a heart attack though
Oh boyfriend. I got rid of all the magazines that I didn’t need, and I’m not going to throw out my music. You can get rid of the camera, I thought you did already.
I love you too.
I am attached to some things, like my books, my CD collection, that I definitely am not interested in upgrading, downloading or getting rid of the physical object. If I like an artist, author or album, I still want to buy the physical CD/book to support the artist. The disks are something that eventually I may need to upgrade, but I’m really not too concerned because I can still access the data with my PC. I frequently go on cleaning/organizing sprees where I get rid of things I don’t need, and sometimes after a few months I decide that some of the things I didn’t purge are no longer needed.
I guess people can’t really understand my frustration with this unless you’ve been to my house when I come home and things of mine are piled at the door for Goodwill, because a certain someone doesn’t think I need it.
C’est la vie.
I was going to suggest “upgrade the boyfriend, perhaps keep the other stuff?” but I suppose that is in poor taste…
The boyfriend doesn’t need an upgrade, he’s the best. He just likes to get rid of things and doesn’t understand why I don’t upgrade some things.